Everything Jennifer Garner has said about parenting kids Violet, Fin and Samuel

The 13 Going On 30 star has got candid about parenting over the years

Jennifer Garner is a devoted mom to her three kids, Violet, Fin and Samuel. She shares them with ex-husband Ben Affleck, now married to Jennifer Lopez and step father to twins Emme and Max.

As her oldest daughter has now entered adulthood, turning 18 in December 2023, and her middle child has debuted a new name in public for the first time, here is everything the actress has said about motherhood.

Pregnancy

Jennifer has been open about how pregnancy changed her body, as she said back in 2018: "One of the things for me being pregnant is … I carried a baby in the back as much as I did in the front. So I’d catch myself in the mirror and be like, 'Ah! What is that? So big, oh my God — there’s another thing growing back there!'"

She went on to reassure moms that they "will get your bodies back; you will get your lives back".

She insisted: "you can still travel; you can still have fun; you can still go back to work or not; you can breastfeed or not; you will be best friends with your kid and then someday you’re going to realize you’re actually angry with them and that’s okay; and you’re going to be great, because it’s your experience and your baby and your body and it’s going to happen the way you want it to because you’re starting your families."

Being a first-time mom

The actress reflected on being a mom for the first time with her daughter Violet, calling herself a "nightmare" in an interview with Allure.

"I was such a first-time mom," she admitted. "She couldn't have a free thought — I was all over her. I was a nightmare for everyone around me."

Her parenting style

Many parents take a particular style when it comes to parenting, but Jennifer has made it clear that she doesn't have "some overarching philosophy".

She said on TODAY about her kids: "I just think they’re such cool people and I want to hear everything, and I want to be around. But I also think it’s OK if they suffer from a little bit of benign neglect."

She added: "Their lives are their own, I'm not trying to live their life, and I don't mind that they see that I love mine."

Managing conflict with her teenagers

Many moms know the struggle of fighting with teenagers, but Jennifer revealed in an Actors on Actors interview with Sheryl Lee Ralph that she's quite pragmatic about conflict with her kids.

"I love my teenagers. I know that there's usually an easy way for me to turn them around if they're getting too crunchy, and it doesn't really happen that much", she said. "If it does, I know when to give them space. I know when to lean in a little bit. I don't always get it right. But they're my kids, we're raising each other."

Letting her kids have privacy

Many moms find themselves prying into the lives of their kids, but not Jennifer. She revealed on the Raising Good Humans podcast that the family have an annual tradition over New Year's Eve where they "write down something we want to let go of, something we want to manifest, etc."

She quickly added: "They never show it to me, I wish! I let them have their privacy whatever...!"

The differences between Fin and Violet

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As the actress reflected on how Violet and Fin approached making goals for the year to come, she revealed that the two siblings couldn't be more different.

"It was interesting thinking about temperament. Their personal mission statements and value statements were as if they had never met," Jennifer observed on the podcast.

Asking her kids for advice

While preparing for the role of Jess Walker in , who has a Freaky Friday moment with one of her kids, Jennifer asked her kids "a bunch of questions" about what it's like to be a teenager.

"You're turning the volume up so much because it's all so exaggerated," she explained, before revealing: "But yes, I definitely went to my teens and asked a bunch of questions. They were all like, 'Mom, you're crazy.'"

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